French etiquette

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Having lived in the UK for many years, I have been able to observe so many differences in social etiquette between France and Britain. 

French people always say hello when they enter a shop or a bar and goodbye when they leave. They do not just address the shopkeeper but generally anyone present by using the phrase “bonjour/bonsoir Messieurs Dames” or the appropriate gender if only one person is present. As a foreigner, greeting everyone as you enter the premises is the perfect icebreaker, especially if you are in a small village.

You do not exchange names with people when you first meet them and do not volunteer yours. People address each other as Monsieur and Madame. For instance, a tradesman arriving at your house will just say “bonjour Madame” and “bonjour   Monsieur” will be your reply. This is how you will continue to address each other in the   friendliest of ways of course! In their small  village, my aunts have been going to the same bakery for years and know the owner pretty well. They will chat at length about their families but still address each other’s as Madame…

Snacking, especially whilst walking in the street is not part of the French culture. French people usually have a bigger lunch meaning they do not need to snack as often. They also believe that meals are best enjoyed sitting around a table. Even at McDonalds, my compatriots will order a starter and a dessert!!! Of course, a beer is required to wash your meal down! Be aware that a lot of businesses shut on lunchtime to allow employees to have their lunch!


Usually people think nothing of bringing a dog to a restaurant for dinner. Almost all cafés, bistros and brasseries are perfectly happy for your dog to sit at your feet whilst you eat your dinner. It is fair to say that, especially in Paris, you will mainly see smaller sized dogs.

As they joined us for a long weekend to celebrate my daughter's wedding in France, two British friends enjoyed lunch at “ Trois Gros” – Roanne's 3 Michelin stars restaurant.  They took their dog with them!!!

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